This is not a diss to any woman anywhere. Its just talks about why woman search through their guy phone.
Anyway you try to put it, it all boils down to trust in your relationship, yourself and your guy!!
“SWEEP AND SEARCH”
Ladies you must know some guys actually leave their phone laying around to see what your going to do.He’s testing you. I’m not saying all guys do because most of the time it might be that he forget where he put it. You sweep it up, scroll through it searching for something that’s probably not there or that you may not like. You read his texts you memorize how much calls he received from a number and you sit there and you stew over what you see.
You know what that does? It puts more questions than before in your head about who he’s calling and why he’s texting other girls.Sometimes searching may not be a bad thing because you find out more about your guy than you knew before. He could be telling you that ‘Your the only one’ or ‘I love you’ but you find out that he’s telling Ashley or Jenny the same thing.
Should you get angry at him over something that your not even suppose to see?You ask yourself ‘how should I approach the matter?’
That right there is a million dollar question. Should your or should you not approach your boyfriend on something you saw while snooping?
This exposes you to the question of ‘Why were you searching through my phone?’ Now the cats out the bag and you seem like the distrustful girlfriend.
But despite your snooping you found out exactly what he’s up to when your not around.
Hurtful? I know!!!
But hey if your like some other women you don’t care what he thinks because at far as you know he’s your boyfriend and you can search his phone whenever you feel like it.
You handle the problem right there. Straight Up!!
“THE TEXT OR CALL BACK”
After searching through his phone you call or text back his numbers to see the responses or to blow up on the trick??(Lol. No not really. I meant to say the other girl) so back to what I was saying or to blow up on the other girl and you expecting her to just lie down and take the rant you just started on. But wait, she goes and bust your bubble and throws you off your rant and says ” Wait hoe. Who do you think you are?” You be going back and forward with this argument calling each others hoes, bitches, tramps, etc but wait. Where’s the guy in this whole argument? Why he isn’t there taking sides.
You want to know why???
CAUSE HE DOESN’T CARE!!! YOUR NOT HIS WIFE. YOUR HIS GIRLFRIEND. NO TILL DEATH DO US PART.
You got a street guy. He probably already told you from the beginning that, that is how he was, is and will be till the end but you still want to get mad when he has other women he’s talking to while still talking to you.
GET OF HIS PHONE LADIES.
Same way that he can find his preference in women then you can find a guy that only dates one woman. All good guys are not dead just try a little harder.
Also a wrench in your gear. Before its his sister, aunt, cousin he’s texting saying ’ I love you’? You just blew up on a family member and you just know that there’s going to be a call back to him telling him the story..lol
JUST GIVE A HONEST FEEDBACK ON HOW YOU WOULD HANDLE THE SITUATION.